New career direction

Late last year I made the decision to change career direction and look to retrain as a coach with the intention of working with people looking to return to work after mental illness. Well its almost time to go – I’ll be doing this part time at least at first, but hopefully it will take off and I can focus more on doing something that I am incredibly passionate about. In the meantime – check out the new company website and let me know what you think.

http://www.newdaycoaching.co.uk

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Remember us?

So we’ve been having a few weeks of living in our house rather than doing things with it. But it was just a breather before what is hopefully the final push. And in the last week we’ve seen a few big changes, mostly outside. But before we get to that a few piccies of the changes inside, courtesy of Sean from SRG Tiling. He has made a start on the remaining tiling downstairs – and is just waiting for the boxing and plumbing to be redone in the downstairs loo before coming back and finishing off. The utility room, downstairs loo and front door step all look fabulous. He’s a talented boy!

I’ve always felt that the house gets more modern as you move from the front to the back. The Study (aka ‘Room of Shame’) is pretty much untouched so is really representative the original house. So the tiling at the front reflects the tiling that was in the old house, especially in the old kitchen.

And the other major change has been outside at the back. The garden hasn’t been touched for over a year. And for much of that it was masquerading as a builder’s yard. So it was in desperate need of some TLC. So its been back to Martin and his team from MJ Field Gardening Services. First off was clearing the folorn-looking ‘garden’, starting with the very top – which we had always wanted as a wildlife garden.

Next they moved on to our lawn – although it is a bit of a stretch to call it a lawn.

And then, one long, tough Friday later…

And then by the time i came home, we had a beautiful garden. We have been a bit of a fan of the view from our lounge for a while (we’ve hidden it well though – I doubt anybody has picked up on it…) but it truly looks amazing now.

First finishing touches

So a couple of deliveries this week and they are some of the creature comforts that we have been looking forwards to – probably a little bit of extravagance, but I think we deserve them. At last our new house starts to feel like the home Maddie and I have been working towards.

And then we’ve spent the last couple of days dodging the rain to paint and protect the decking. It’s nearly killed us both, but it’s looking good.

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Wood you believe it

You know that thing we’ve harped on about for months? The one big thing that we have been waiting for? The thing that would make all the difference? You know.

It…

The thing…

Well its done. The floor is finished. Mike has just left – 6pm on a Sunday bless him – and off to the hospital to get his pain sorted out after his “dentist” appears to have botched the removal of two teeth leaving him in considerable pain all week. We didn’t force him to stay honest! But he has done an amazing job and it looks fabulous. 

So it started with a big clearance effort last weekend

Then on Monday the latex started. Smelled really vile but essential to get the whole expanse level. The one good thing Mike told us was that it smelled so bad that cats steered well clear of it. That’s lucky!!

Tuesday saw more latex and more smell. But no more cat paw prints.

And by Wednesday the first lot of latex was dry enough to take furniture, so the remainder of the floor could be covered. One and a half tonnes of latex across the whole floor. Today was also dentist day – and the beginning of Mike’s suffering.

Then on Thursday, with Mike fully pain-killered up, the exciting stuff starts.

Friday – big expanses start to be finished

Mike comes back on Saturday to get it finished

And then still in pain, and despite us telling him to go the emergency doctors, Mike returns on Sunday to complete the job. Just another example of the fabulous people we have had help us throughout this project.

So that is the floor done. And just to show what a difference it makes – look at these two pictures taken at different times over the last week:

 

 

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Graduation photos #2

So, not a lot to report on the house – although the entire downstairs has been cleared – its floor-fitting week!!! And we’ve given the go ahead to the gardener to re-turf the lawn and clear the jungle at the top. So exciting times looming… But we have a few more photos from last week’s fantastic day in Rochester of Becky’s graduation. These are from Becky’s camera and taken from her Facebook page. I hope you enjoy them as much as we do.

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Welcome to Canadia

We have a really important post due later this week – and no its not about the floors – but in the meantime a couple of developments – we have finally got furniture for the bedrooms. We’ve actually had it a while, but Oak Furnitureland only seem to deliver their larger pieces to the ground floor, despite promises to the contrary. Maddie and I, osteoarthritis and bad back notwithstanding, got most of the wardrobes upstairs ourselves when the delivery men proved unable or unwilling, and then last weekend Chris and Charlotte helped us move the final piece onto the flat  roof  and in through the bedroom window. So the caravan room and our bedroom are now fully furnished. And every little bit is a step closer to finishing

And we’ve had our first long term visitors come to stay – one of the main reasons we did the house in the first place was to have room for guests. So we have had Maddie’s mum, Joyce and her friend Scott from Canada (or Canadia) to stay. Joyce met Scott doing the Coast to Coast walk twelve years ago  and he has been over to the UK several times to walk since. He finished the Cotswold way last week and came over to Yateley after that. Its been absolutely fantastic having them both to stay – we’re just coming to the end of a touristy weekend in London and Oxford.

 

The garden part 2

So week two on the decking.

And then on Wednesday this week, Martin and his team finished. The design is courtesy of Charlotte – and we all think its fabulous. Even Martin did, although he had a much less favourable view while he was cutting all those angles… Safe to say Charlotte dropped down his favourite person list! Next weekend will probably buying stain samples – so more decisions to come.

And Mark has been back and fitted some cool uplighters at the edge of the deck. We haven;t really benefited from them yet as the build stress has finally caught up with us and the chances of Maddie and I still being up by the time it is dark are pretty much zero!

Oh – forgot to mention. We have a date confirmed for the flooring to go in… 8th August, the last major job begins. Is the end really in sight???

The garden

So as promised, back to the house. Over the past week we have had Martin and his team in from MJ FIeld Gardening Services. They have been working to turn the overgrown builder’s yard at the back of the house back into a garden. It had essentially been neglected for a year and then maltreated even further as a store for all sorts of materials. So it wasn’t looking its best:

And as has often been the way – before you can start to fix things, you have to make them worse. So Martin and his team launched into action to clear the overgrowth and try and make sense of what was left. Still a bit of  a shock when we first saw it:

And then over the last couple of days, the decking outside the lounge has started to take shape. It looks massive at the moment, but once it is done and has some furniture and some pots it will look amazing. They are back on Monday to start to fixing the actual decking planks.

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Happy Birthday Dad

I had hoped to post a really exciting (well for us at least) update this weekend. Last week was the week for the floor to go in downstairs. Unfortunately, when they came to test the screed it still had too much moisture for them to guarantee the floor. So flooring has been postponed. Cue dehumidifiers running round the clock and a revisit on Wednesday this week. So while there have been a few changes dotted around the house recently, I am going to save them to accompany the, hopefully imminent, floor installation. 

In the meantime, something much more important. Last weekend we had a bit of a family get-together in the Midlands to celebrate my Dad’s 80th birthday. As you can imagine there were tonnes of photos taken – but rather than force them all on you here, I have posted the full display in The Gallery. We had a really fantastic weekend with dad’s twin brother and sister, Maurice and Elsie and their other halves, Brenda and Jack, my little sister Lyndsay and her hubby Iain with their two awesome kids, Cameron and Isabelle, me, Maddie, Becky and Charlotte, and of course not forgetting Mum and the birthday boy himself. Thank you to Lyndsay and Iain for donating their home on Saturday and Sunday, and to The Schoolhouse near Tamworth where we had a fantastic meal on the Saturday evening. I know my Dad had a great time with all of his nearest and dearest around him, and we all had a really lovely time celebrating his birthday with him.

Having said I wouldn’t inundate this post with all of the photographs, I had to put some up here.